14 Free Resources for LGBTQIA+ Youth in New Jersey

In Honor of Pride Month, NJ Department of Children and Families Shares Comprehensive Support List to Aid LGBTQIA+ Youth Amid Unique Challenges

(TRENTON, New Jersey - June 12, 2023) - In recognition of Pride Month and the distinct difficulties confronting LGBTQIA+ youth, the New Jersey Department of Children and Families (DCF) today underscored a multitude of vital resources available to this community within the state.

New Jersey has consistently stood as a haven for the LGBTQIA+ community. Earlier this year, Governor Phil Murphy signed an order to establish the state as a safe zone for individuals seeking gender-affirming healthcare services. Furthermore, since 2019, residents have been granted the right to amend their birth certificates to reflect their gender identity.

Despite New Jersey's protective laws for LGBTQIA+ youth, access to crucial mental and physical healthcare, housing, and other support services can be challenging for those lacking a reliable support network, particularly for youth of color.

A recent CDC study revealed that nearly half of LGBQ+* students seriously contemplated suicide, and about three in four reported persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness. The data also indicates that the suicide risk amplifies for youth who are members of another minority group.

“These teens are often facing incredible familial or societal pressures, creating circumstances that can quickly become overwhelming,” DCF Commissioner Christine Norbut Beyer said. “The sad reality is that some teens and young adults are forced to leave home when they ‘come out,’ putting them at risk of sex trafficking, exploitation, addiction, and homelessness. LGBTQIA-friendly group homes, shelters and emergency services are vital resources for this often-vulnerable population.”

Although the following list is not exhaustive, the DCF has assembled several key resources to help guide LGBTQIA+ youth in need of support. These resources span a range of areas including healthcare, housing, and general assistance, reflecting New Jersey's continued commitment to supporting LGBTQIA+ youth.

New Jersey continues to affirm its dedication to the LGBTQIA+ community, particularly the youth, with the provision of these resources. As societal challenges persist, the DCF reassures that assistance is available, demonstrating the state's unyielding commitment to its residents' well-being and inclusion.

*Data on transgender youth was not available in the CDC survey.

Mentoring & Support groups

PRIDE Center
If you want some advice or guidance from an adult whose journey may be similar to yours, the NJ PRIDE center offers mentorship opportunities. Get paired with a trained mentor and work together to meet your goals.

Kaleidoscope
Sometimes you just need to talk to someone going through the same thing you are. Kaleidoscope offers in-person and virtual monthly meetings for youth and young adults throughout New Jersey. The group’s goal is to empower LGBTQIA+ teens (and allies) to lead healthy, productive lives.

HiTOPS
HiTOPS is a nonprofit organization that provides inclusive and youth-informed LGBTQ support for young people throughout New Jersey. Health services and group support resources are available for people ages 13 - 26. HiTOPS developed two support groups called First & Third and PFLAG for LGBTQ youth and their loved ones.

Healthcare

Garden State Equality’s Affirming Healthcare Map
The nonprofit Garden State Equality compiled a healthcare directory of doctors and providers who identified themselves as LQBTQIA-friendly. Garden State Equality also provides inclusivity training and resources to schools.

North Jersey Community Research Initiative
NJCI offers primary care, infectious disease care and gender-affirmative hormonal treatment, as well as HIV treatment and prevention. They view healthcare holistically and include mental health, substance use treatment, and case management services, too.

Project WOW Youth Center
For young people ages 14-24, Project WOW is a safe space to build community, gain leadership skills and access relevant sexual health, mental health, and substance use services. They offer free rapid HIV testing, one-on-one counseling, safe sex kits, and more.

Hotlines

988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
The new 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 and nationwide. If you are considering suicide or you are in crisis, call or text 988. Its website features additional resources and information for LGBTQIA+ residents.

2NDFLOOR Youth Helpline
This 24/7 helpline serves all NJ youth and young adults in New Jersey. Youth who call are assisted with their daily life challenges by professional staff and trained volunteers. Anonymity and confidentiality are assured except in life-threatening situations. Call or text 1-888-222-2228.

The Trevor Project
The Trevor Project’s goal is to prevent LGBTQIA+ youth suicides. It offers a 24/7 hotline that you can text at 678-678 or call at 1-866-488-7386. It also has online support groups.

NJ PRISM
The PRISM hotline operates 24/7 and provides information and referrals to the LGBTQIA+ community. It can help connect you to services and programs in New Jersey that you may be eligible for. Call 844-657-7476.

Housing
The housing services below are for emergency scenarios or for New Jersey youth who find themselves in unsafe situations.

Mary’s Place
Located in Mercer County, Mary’s Place is a LGBTQIA+ affirming safe housing program for young people, ages 18-21. In addition to the supervised living conditions, staff can help you connect to mental and physical health care, financial education, employment preparation, and more.

Together (Shelter)
Together is a 24-hour emergency shelter for kids ages 9-18, who need a safe place to stay. It is a walk-in shelter, meaning you’ll get help as soon as you enter its doors. In addition to food, clothing, and medical services, staff can connect you with counseling, educational services, and recreational activities. It is LGBTQIA+ affirming.

RAIN Foundation
Located in Essex County, Reaching Adolescents In Need (RAIN) Foundation is a non-profit that provides emergency shelter for LGBT individuals, ages 18 to 26, who are experiencing crisis leading to homelessness.

Covenant House
For youth between the ages of 18 to 21 facing homelessness, Covenant House provides residential and supportive services. There are also programs for young, first-time mothers.

More resources

For additional resources, visit the NJ Youth Resource Spot, PeformCare’s Resources for LGBTQIA+ Youth, and the NJ Transgender Resource Hub.